If you’ve spent any time with family lawyers or mediators recently then I hope they have told you what utter nonsense the divorce day phenomena is.  The media love some kind of divorce scandal and the idea that everyone is suddenly making a beeline for lawyers after a bad Christmas is:


  1. rubbish
  2. distasteful
  3. Not helpful to those sadly in this situation

In this video Louisa shares some thoughts on why she hates this whole idea and why she feels it is the antithesis of help to those separating.  She also shares her simple formula for what you need to focus on in the immediate aftermath of a separation.